Why do men like virgins?
In recent years, discussions about men’s obsession with virginity have appeared frequently on social media and forums. This phenomenon involves cultural, psychological, social and other factors. This article will explore the underlying reasons for this topic through structured data and analysis.
1. Statistics of hot topics on the entire network in the past 10 days

| platform | Topic keywords | Discussion popularity (index) | Main opinion tendencies |
|---|---|---|---|
| virginity complex | 85,200 | Controversial polarization | |
| Zhihu | Male mate selection criteria | 62,500 | Mostly rational analysis |
| Douban | criticism of traditional ideas | 48,700 | Criticism from a female perspective |
| Hupu | premarital sex | 76,300 | Discussion from a male perspective |
2. Analysis of the psychological factors of men’s preference for virgins
1.Evolutionary Psychology Explained: From an evolutionary perspective, men may choose virgins to ensure paternity certainty and reduce the risk of raising non-biological offspring.
2.Sociocultural impact: In traditional concepts, virginity is often regarded as a symbol of "purity". This cultural imprint still affects some men's views on mate selection.
3.possessiveness and control: Some men may regard virginity as an "exclusive right" to satisfy their possessive psychology.
3. Statistics of opposing views
| Objections | Support ratio | main population |
|---|---|---|
| gender equality awareness | 68% | Post-90s, post-00s |
| open sexual concept | 54% | city dweller |
| On the supremacy of love | 72% | Highly educated group |
4. Differences in attitudes among men of different age groups
| age group | Pay attention to virginity ratio | Don't pay attention to proportion |
|---|---|---|
| 18-25 years old | 32% | 68% |
| 26-35 years old | 45% | 55% |
| 36-45 years old | 63% | 37% |
5. Analysis of regional and cultural differences
Data shows that men in first-tier cities attach significantly less importance to their virginity complex (38%) than in third- and fourth-tier cities (62%). The higher the education level, the lower the attachment to this concept.
6. Expert opinions
Psychology experts point out that the virginity complex is essentially a product of social and cultural construction. This phenomenon is changing as the concept of gender equality becomes more popular. A healthy intimate relationship should be based on mutual respect, not an obsession with "first times."
7. Conclusion
The phenomenon of men preferring virgins is the result of the interweaving of multiple factors, which has both biological basis and social and cultural influences. With the development of the times, this concept is being re-examined. Treating sexual experiences rationally and respecting individual choices is the proper meaning of modern views on marriage and love.
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